I was blind
In all truth, in spite of the profound loss of my once very clear vision, I had no idea I was going blind. The only reason I did something is because we met our deductible. In January Eli had a horrible ski accident, which resulted in a seriously fractured jaw, which required a titanium plate, tooth extraction, and having his jaw wired shut. He could not chew food for two months and lost thirty-five pounds. With our deductible met, Dave suggested we see the doctor for anything we thought we might want to take care of. I knew I had not had my eyes tested in a while and the blur was a little bothersome.
With risk of pre-existing conditions soon counting against me, I decided to get my eyes checked out. I have a traumatic cataract. And understandably, my diagnosis caused some confusion, especially with me. See, several years ago I thought it was strange when a cornea specialist said that I had cataracts, or better, said that he could see my cataracts.
The specialist was expert in corneas, not cataracts. In my case, it does. Still I was caught off guard, he explained my scans and explained my diagnosis. Still did not make sense. Thankfully the surgeon realized that my processing speed needed a minute as I absorbed the shock. That is when he asked me to come back before surgery. I can answer any of your concerns.
And yes, the diagnosis is a classic traumatic cataract. Oh and by the way, when did you hit your head? I did hit my head, and hard. It was an unfamiliar house and completely dark. I went over a baby gate and landed on my face. I broke my nose, ruptured a cyst in my wrist, and damaged my optic nerve. In fact, even now the skin sensation on the left side of my forehead feels different than the right. And no, I was not drinking. You still may doubt or have questions. So before I go any further, let me clear some things up.
Normal cataracts tend to affect both eyes. When vision is bad enough, surgery is performed on one eye and after that eye heals, surgery is performed on the other. And it is possible that one eye may need surgery a year or two before the other, but they are close. It is my understanding the cataracts are a natural product of the aging eye.
My doctor put it this way:. Eventually the water becomes too foggy. And because the glass is yours, you get to decide when has become too foggy. Ultimately, it is our ability to see through foggy-water combined with the speed in which the fogginess impedes our vision that dictates when we are ready. As a result of these factors, not all of us will have surgery. We may die first for real. In my case, my left eye has a barely noticeable and typical cataract. It will probably be many years before it gets bad enough to fix.
On the other hand, my right eye looked like a firework exploded in my lens. When given a glare test, I was completely blind. I would get my questions answered, yet surgery needed to happen regardless. Even though it was confirmed that I could not see, I was crazy terrified the week before surgery.
The risk of losing my eyesight altogether weighed heavily on me. I tried talking myself out of the surgery so many times, and I tried to cancel the day of. I even told the nurse,. I waited until In a sea of delightful old people facing the same surgery, I waited. Because I barf percent of the time after having morphine, the anesthesiologist opted not to give me pain medicine. Instead she used topical numbing and anti-nausea medicine.
He and the male nurse covered my head in a big white sheet with a hole.
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Jul 15, C. This book is a very long "rant" with no real support to stand on. It gives one man's opinions and frustrations about the world with no genuine resolve. The section on self-publishing a book is helpful. Feb 01, J.
I enjoyed the 2nd half of this but it's worth skipping over some of the rants. There's gold in there but you have to dig. I agree with a lot of what he says so it's kind of preaching to the converted. Self help for a blogging generation. Why am I so enamored with James Altucher? Despite what he says, he is a genius, with an IQ way above most people we interact with on a daily basis.
He has both right and left sides of the brain developed. James loves to read. Brutally, terrifyingly, unreasonably, completely honest. He will tell you things about his life, both inner and social, that most people would never dare to do. I know only one other person on this planet who doe Why am I so enamored with James Altucher? I know only one other person on this planet who does the same. My respect for that also.
He is an idea machine who that encourages us to become idea machines too. See which ones you can combine. Who encourages you to stretch your mind in this way? Drinking or shopping buddies? These are the parts of our lives that make us grow, these moments where we get to explore who we are and also who we are becoming and who we can become.
How beautiful to take the time to explore this. I am grateful to be on the receiving end of this advice. Now my brain is busy with what I will put on my list. James has picked for his spouse an incredibly intelligent woman, someone who is his peer and whose accomplishments he is proud of. And he says this regularly, not only in this book. How many people do we know who are married to their intellectual peer? Someone who we also can look up to? Someone whose lifestyle or life philosophy we admire?
Who we can learn from? My respect to him for this also. Listen to their "Ask Altucher" podcast and hear for yourself; great dynamic there between the two. He is really funny, actually both witty and funny. The stuff he writes about is serious, but he gives a hilarious take on many episodes in his life and pokes fun at himself. He will challenge many things you hold dear, your life philosophies, the way you were programmed since childhood, your values and the entire system of values that you know and that is part of your existence as the human you know yourself to be.
And he will tell you to challenge and question everything, to start from scratch, to free yourself from all you have been programmed to believe to be true. This is the uncomfortable part. But what an exercise in growth! He will take you on the long and painful journey from failure to success in all of its complicated curves, ups and downs, the excruciating moments when everything hurt and when he thought he could not go on for one more day. And then he will show you, example by example, how he re-created everything, he will teach you his daily practice, and he will do it in a very hands-on way.
Practical, easy to understand, and impossible to say "I can't" to. This is free advice, and you'd be wise to listen and take notes. James Altucher gets it. He's not living in a rarified atmosphere, oblivious to the real world, he is not insulated from pain, and moreover he exposes that pain so it seems more banalized, because he makes it appear smaller than what we imagine it to be, he takes it out and examines it from every angle, and then he says, you know what?
I can do better. I can overcome it. I can b e c o m e a better human being. I can strive to become one every single day. And I can start today, and keep at it. Have balls to pick myself up, and keep going. And all the while respect this life we have, the time we have left on this planet. Just get the goddamn book. It's a good read, and it will definitely make you think.
And write more lists. And get you one step closer to becoming a better human being. It's hard to see this book as a complete work--it's a reprint of blog posts from the past two years given some formal reconstruction and expansion, but lacking the necessary revisions to make it unified. There are dozens of typos, which is unacceptable even for a self-published book. I've heard it said that those who don't proofread their grammar must have also failed to proofread their ideas.
I'd like to think that he went to Cornell as he claims, but after seeing him fail to use possessive pro It's hard to see this book as a complete work--it's a reprint of blog posts from the past two years given some formal reconstruction and expansion, but lacking the necessary revisions to make it unified.
"I WAS BLIND, BUT NOW I SEE"
I'd like to think that he went to Cornell as he claims, but after seeing him fail to use possessive pronouns correctly I have doubts. Sans hack articulation his ideas are alright, and the snippets of autobiography he inserts make the lessons he gives as much about what he learned as his audience's acceptance of them, though I wish he could have managed this without making himself the justification for the change that he made--basically accomplished by straw-manning his past self in his oh-so-foolish ways. The spine of the book is what he calls The Practice, a list of things to do every day that will bring you success in whatever you are requiring it.
The contents are more scattered than that. Secondary to his ideas for wellness are his stories and his rants, which are way more fun, and the only reason this review gives two stars and not one star. By the end of the book I had an image of a small nervous guy typing away frantically, the quintessential neurotic guy from New York--just make him Jewish and you have every Woody Allen movie. It totalled to a series of thoughts connected only by their originator, so proceed with caution if it at all piques your curiosity.
A concise, quirky, fantastic read. I'm a huge fan of Altucher's blog and while he makes it clear that the book is merely a collection of blog posts, it flows smooth enough and has his classic whit and humor. I have him to thank for waking me up from a depression that was induced by what he calls the American Religion which tells you things like, you have to go to college, you have to buy a home, etc. He brings refreshing truth and creative thoughts.
While this might typically be labeled "self- A concise, quirky, fantastic read. While this might typically be labeled "self-help" Altucher himself states that it is not meant to be so. It is a great mix of personal stories and practical suggestions on living called the Daily Practice that have worked wonders for Altucher.
I'd highly recommend pairing this book with Sam Harris' short essay on Lying. Having read them back to back, they offer a wonderful reminder that honesty and truthfulness is rare in the world around us. And if we are bold enough to break free and speak truth, we will come alive in a way we might not have thought possible. It is already beginning to work for me and true freedom is becoming more and more of an everyday reality. Dec 08, Charlie rated it really liked it.
If You have at any point in your life decided to be really ambitious and live by external goals rather than things you value, this book may serve as a very effective warning. James Altucher doesn't explicitly say that this kind of goal driven, success orientated lifestyle is bad, but he does warn that what is often conventionally sought after can leave a person devoid of what they thought they were doing it all for: I really liked the book because it was down to earth, i.
Some of the ideas are serious food for thought for anyone on the verge of going into the rat race and his 'daily practice' has, i've found, been very helpful for keeping consistent happiness in each day. I should finally say that part of the reason I rank this book so high is that I think the author is an authority on this given his history in terms of pursuing and finding the 'successful' life, losing it all and finding it again. I mentioned in my other review of Mr.
I Was Blind But Now I See
Altucher's work that I purchased 2 of his books. I will be upgrading "How to be the Luckiest I love books, so if it's around I'll read it, even if I'm not a fan of the writing style. So that brings me to this book. I'm on page 43 and again I'm converted back to a fan of James Altucher's insight, and writing style. This book still reads like it may have been copy pasted from his blog. But, the manner in which it comes acros I mentioned in my other review of Mr. But, the manner in which it comes across for some reason connects much differently than the other book.
This book will make you reconsider the world and your place in it. It's practical and poignant so far, and if it continues throughout I'll leave the 4 star rating as is. We are in a great need for a shift in paradigm, and this book is one of many books out there that offer just that to it's readers. Oct 08, Maria rated it really liked it. I appreciate Altucher's honesty and he also has a good podcast.
His views are a bit different but I like how he talks about his life with honesty and is not afraid to talk about it. Some parts of the book were captivating but then towards the end you just wanted to finish it. Like any book, you have to be in the mood to read it. I liked his id 3. I liked his ideas about creating ideas and the daily practice and to avoid crappy people. These are the key takeaways. If you like Altucher's other work then this book is for you; if you want a different spin on self help, this would also be included.
I originally thought Altucher sounded arrogant and it was surprising as he's not that in his podcast, but if you continue you reading you'll realize he's just sharing his thoughts, and that's it. I'd like to read a couple of his other books, as well. Jun 26, Robert rated it liked it. James relays several life stories that put things into perspective, which I believe most people often lack in day to day life.
Along with his perspective, he outlines a Daily Practice focused on making progress across physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual realms, plus his sage advice to stop engaging with crappy people. This was worth the effort and I feel more inspired having read it. James has a unique style that is easy to understand and relate with! I feel james has analytical mind and writes straight from his heart I listened to his Ted talk and eversince,I have read most of what he has written.
I thoroughly like it! We all should "Choose our selves"!
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In the book the author attempts two things. For instance, he argues against students going to college or owning a home as opposed to renting one and uses clear cut arguments and mentions alternatives to make his point. Although I don't agree with him on every point, I can totally appeal to the underlying idea that people get stuck to a paradigm without questioning it. For example with regard to owning a house, people expect safety and a solid investment when buying one - both have proven to be totally off the last decade - but probably the most influential reason for buying a home is because your parents did it, and their parents did it and their parents did it He mentions four 'pillars' that represent you as a human being and elaborates on them but rather briefly.
It's a very entertaining read, there is a lot of humour, the author is brutally honest towards himself, almost to the extent of self-destruction, and expresses some very strong anecdotes to support his ideas.
I Was Blind But Now I See — Literally
The author is a serialentrepreneur, investor, trader, programmer and amateur psychologist who went from poor to very rich to very poor to rich and to poor again and writes about his experiences along the way and a very strong anecdotal form. I really liked the book, but could not give it 5 stars because of the X reasons. First, the book is a bit sloppy written.
It's more or less a collection of his blog posts and he did not even bother to adapt some of them: There are a lot of typing errors as well. Kind of makes me feel everything was rushed and little regard was held towards the reader. Secondly, James contradicts himself rather often. For instance, his 'Daily Practice' to happiness embodies living a healthy, balanced life that should be centred around what's most important according to your principles and values.
Nonetheless, he has a very commercial mind and regularly writes conflicting things. For instance, he argues that to be happy follow the daily practice of doing sports, eating healthy, sleep, read, engage in spiritual activities, spend time with friends and family while you also would have to work hours a day to make money this guy is all about making money. Feb 09, Sherri rated it it was amazing. This book is about Stephanie Rische, who tried to find someone to fall in love with, but always came up empty. She comes across many uncomfortable situations, but amidst it all finds that God is with her in every step she takes.
I found this book to be a step beyond the tradition single girl looking for love book, in which it doesn't necessarily focus on what you as a singleton is doing wrong.
Rather, it is focusing on creating a relationship with God, despite the pitfalls of dating that may come This book is about Stephanie Rische, who tried to find someone to fall in love with, but always came up empty. Rather, it is focusing on creating a relationship with God, despite the pitfalls of dating that may come your way. Even though I'm currently married, I went thru many of the situations Stephanie encountered. Well, not nearly all the dreadful blind dates, but the years of singleness.
The wondering of if I will ever meet Mr. I found that the way that Rische wrote was enlightening and a delight to read. She made it as though we were best friends and she was sharing her struggles in her quest of finding her mate. When I selected this book, I knew of several friends who are still on the dating quest. There is one friend in particular, whom I believe would find this book a delight. It will give her courage and aware, that finding Mr. Right shouldn't be the sole purpose in life. Accepting yourself with all the good things you can do to share with Him and others, is just as wonderful.
I received this book from Tyndale Blog Network in exchange for an honest review. Jan 03, Uwe Hook rated it really liked it. James Altucher is one of my favorite bloggers. His book has a refreshing perspective on many "sacred cows". It's honest, enlightening, and healthy.
Altucher discussed accepted and taken for granted area of our lives - thoroughly review it from every angle - and then make the decision that it is working or not working for us. It is honest, enabling and at this point in our lives, a much needed process. He touches on such subjects as the need for colleges, buying a house, and life in a corporate c James Altucher is one of my favorite bloggers.
He touches on such subjects as the need for colleges, buying a house, and life in a corporate cubicle. An analogy is that of taking everything out of the house and putting it on the front yard.
“I am getting older and that is what happens.”
Then deciding on each and every item before taking it back into your house. The author's point is that just because an outdated belief is promoted or handed down to you years ago, does not entitle it a place in your life. A great read to start the year. Jun 07, Raf rated it it was amazing. Another great James Altucher book!